Can't Fix Everything

Yep, this corner has been quiet for a little while, the writing side of my life took a backseat for a bit.

It's great how people try to help others, but there comes a point where you've done all you can. Either the person doesn't want, need, or is willing to accept the help you are offering. Even if none of that is true, you may have done all you can.

Some people have their own issues to deal with, but don't because it's easier to focus on anyone and everyone else. They will put all of their effort into helping or advising someone who seems like they have bigger problems then they do. My question- how does that help either of you?

Something I've learned, and in a lot of cases still learning, is that until you help yourself, you shouldn't be trying to help others. Think about when you're on a plane and the mask drops down for oxygen. What do they tell you to do? That's right, put your mask on first! (funnily enough, this is the exact example given to me when I needed to learn this).

Another side to this, if you are trying to help, and you've done all you can. At some point the other person has to help themselves, but right now they are relying on you instead of trying to improve their situation.

Everyone has demons, try and face yours first!